Don’t Throw a Tantrum

“Don’t throw a tantrum”. It’s a noted myth that venting anger is always the prime strategy. I used to live in that circle but now I’ve been cognizant of the fact that venting can cause more problem than it solves. Deriving from my experience, it can impair good relationship. We were acknowledged of self-importance, when we were bent out of shape, we tend to explode. Conquering all the curse and harsh word without realize that it might hurt people’s feeling. Last night, my relationship was slightly falling apart. It’s because of my Jay-Z mouth. LOL. Lesson learned. I’m sorry b.

I admit I am poorly managed my anger and I already damage some of the parts. It is just beyond of my control. When I got utterly pissed off, my emotion is mixing up and it boils my pregnant mind of wrathful. After I spelled out the sickening fool, I would get upset over past action. I took a heave of breath and cool down. It’s my mistake. I should have known myself; silent when I get mad cos I understand that mad is just a wrong button to push in an acute angry stage.

Sometimes I have to accept the injustice is a part of life; recognizes that some things in life just aren’t fair and accept that cos it’s a cycle of energy. I guess last night was a good training cos no one ever aware me of my anger accept my lover (errr. There might be one or two people told me bout my behavioral but well it’s not effective. Live that!). Hence, I’m gonna tame my temper by communication. As simple as that! Just slow down and think before about what I want to say. Explain that I feel angry about something rather than acting aggressively. Listen carefully to the other person before I respond.

Plus I don’t think anger is working for my face. I’m like a cupid with angel’s wing, naked and proudly showing my big ding dong. Okay enough. The content is getting explicit now. LOL. I guess I’m signing off now. Have a good day people!