Monday, July 27, 2009

Anachronism in Modern Warfare

Posted by Aliph at 9:47 PM
Friendship is an anachronism in modern warfare because it’s hard to find an everlasting friend, the person who always be on your special day; your birthday, your graduation, any of your family’s funeral procession including your wedding day. Just look further my reader…

Do you satisfy of how your friend treating you? Well, if you don’t, advice is very effective to carve a little remembrance. I always did that, that’s why I keep my friend close. For me, my friend acts as my defense. Surely, I have a good defense. Once, when people attacked me, my friend comes to be the Combo Attack. Thus I stayed strong.

I don’t want to write this like an appreciation to someone but I really don’t understand one of my friends (use to be). It’s a he. I really think he was such a good companion, mostly I shared my problem with him, ask him in any making decision phase. But now, he really put a distance from me. I don’t mind about it but it was awkward cos I used to have his text that he likes this person and that person. Well, he is cheesy. Lol. But end up being single jugak. Sigh…. I asked him WHAT’s UP? He clarified me with confusing answer. I accepted whatever answer he gave, at least he tried… case settled :-).

After 5 minutes, he wanted to far away. I said okay. Then he said you don’t know what I mean, I mean we should stay away from each other. Again I said okay. I can’t force people to keep a good amity. It’s tacit; understood without being openly expressed. Lastly, I confessed something I did behind his back which I told my friend that he hold my hand in the cinema. It’s seemed like a sexual harassment. Lol. I told him cos I wanted to apologize since we were not friend anymore in upcoming second. But all he did was to be friend with me back?????????!!!!! Man…….. ur confusing; spinning like a top. I can’t handle that drama due I was running out of lines. I shut the door of begging. Ignored him and I called my friend on the phone, laughed about this pathetic miserable guy who I used to list him in one of my fellowship.

Lesson: Think before you SAY cos the consequences would influence your life wholly. I’m not a bad people. Vice versa, I’m the person who opens for only first SAY. Plus being ‘I’ is not a peccadillo. Tongue has the highest potential to burry friendly sentiment in sand. My advice is “Don’t chew your MIND till your tongue bites the taste. The taste might be deceiving”.

38 comments on "Anachronism in Modern Warfare"

renjizakura on July 27, 2009 11:47 PM said...

ooooo
hmmm
it sound complicated.
but whatever it is gadoh is not a good option.
mayb he has a reason.just ask him y
this is my opininon

Cai Hong on July 27, 2009 11:52 PM said...

Lesson: Think before you SAY cos the consequences would influence your life wholly.

the counselling teacher keep telling me that
"you should always say NO although it going to hurt people's feeling.
If you too care about people feeling,ended up u are hurt by them."

its so true:P

Fadzli on July 28, 2009 12:17 AM said...

At the end of the day, its a learning curve of frenship.

Dann Chafid on July 28, 2009 1:15 AM said...

this is confusing! haha.
ur words are like "WOAH!"
lol.

JQR on July 28, 2009 2:08 AM said...

this is a good piece . thumbs up aliph

tiramisu on July 28, 2009 2:19 AM said...

errr....( x terkata )
coz dlm kpala otak tgh berfikir siapakh 'he' tersebut...

Ejay on July 28, 2009 4:23 AM said...

wahh.. ko punya tajuk entry mmg tak bley blah.. hu-hu

anyway, it's good to share ur 'confuse' experience nih.. at least, something for me to learn la.

today i learn that... ermmm.. don't hold ur friend's hand in the cinema. hold pop corn takpe. betul? ha-ha.

fArAh07 on July 28, 2009 4:48 AM said...

nice pic lah
;p

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:01 AM said...

renji. its not complicated
but its confusing; hard to understand
guess nowadays guys took large amount hormone pill
thats y the emotion yadayada

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:02 AM said...

yes cai hong. in fact im not hurting myself
he said it himself like sucked out the blood out of his heart.
adoi.

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:03 AM said...

fazdli. i like ur comment.
its mother nature

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:06 AM said...

tue la pasal dann
btw dann. u are my defense
give me 5 ;D

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:07 AM said...

thanks jqr
the way i expressing the feeling
lastly, i laughed this story with my friend
woah, evil me

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:09 AM said...

oh tiramisu
he is a good writer in blog
very good listener
subjective hint ;]

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:10 AM said...

hahaha. ejay
truth.. sep2 tangan. lol
yeah, jgn la pegang tngan kawan anda
tmbah2 kalo sejenis
ROFL

Aliph on July 28, 2009 5:13 AM said...

errr farah... pic??
okay lah

Dann Chafid on July 28, 2009 5:13 AM said...

aliph, LIMA!
haha =]]

ikanbilis on July 28, 2009 5:30 AM said...

you are such a brilliant writer, boy. i'm so proud of you.


and this situation is too confusing too and c'est la vie. no friends are ever perfect and no friends will ever not talk about you behind your back.

i don't hold hands its too awkward for this country, i hug. =)

and in the middle east we peck. =P

renjizakura on July 28, 2009 6:29 AM said...

hmmm
ha'a ek
aliph, ur right
tapi xde la smpai makan pil

Mya Zulkifli on July 28, 2009 7:04 AM said...

im swimming thru ur fuyoooh vocabsss!
this thingy ur facing now is comfusing yet complicated! perhaps being ‘U’ is not a peccadillo but Picaddillyyyy!!

lol.

Mya Zulkifli on July 28, 2009 7:04 AM said...

confusing*

Aliph on July 28, 2009 9:36 AM said...

dann. alang2 tue sepuluh lah
hahahaha

Aliph on July 28, 2009 9:38 AM said...

thanks azhan =]
well ya... no one perfect
thats y ppl shud abandoned some of little impuritues
we r human

Aliph on July 28, 2009 9:39 AM said...

haha renji
well about the guy i talked
maybe he is taking the pill

Aliph on July 28, 2009 9:41 AM said...

mya. im blushing
Picaddillyyyy? lol
if i insist something cuter
then im a pinnochio
hahaha me

kerolizwan on July 28, 2009 9:52 AM said...

When something begins, you generally have no idea how it's goin to end. Tailoring friendship by adjusting the expectations. The best has yet to come aliph ;)

Z In Skinny on July 28, 2009 10:05 AM said...

It's always until u fight than u're best friends.
Whatever it is when you're good people always come back when 'they' realised.

Aliph on July 28, 2009 11:47 AM said...

tailoring is not easy
its not my work
it supposed to be his work who break it
right???

Aliph on July 28, 2009 11:52 AM said...

zafirrudin
thats deep. thank man for the advice

Z In Skinny on July 28, 2009 2:15 PM said...

double D's please.not double R's hehehehe.
no problem ikmal aliFF

Aliph on July 28, 2009 2:29 PM said...

gosh. demanding betul
lol
okay zafiruDDin.

kerolizwan on July 28, 2009 6:07 PM said...

couldn't agree more. use your clairvoyant insight to discover his whereabouts. ;O

tiramisu on July 28, 2009 6:41 PM said...

aliph...heeeeee i think i noe already who is the guy in ur post....

=p

p/s : thanx for the hints...it really helps...

Aliph on July 29, 2009 7:48 AM said...

there's no need to discover
i don't make any discovery channel anyway
lol

Aliph on July 29, 2009 7:51 AM said...

good tiramisu. ur smart girl ;]
how weak people like him made a such defense
i'm stubborn. obviously it dont move me at all

General Geek on July 29, 2009 11:58 AM said...

Aliph...
the holding hand part..
what u said isn't cool..
i tak approve..
i know i said i taknak involve myself..
but, it aint right dude..
u know better..

Aliph on July 29, 2009 11:32 PM said...

i know........
that's a past. said it to ur so called senior
lol

General Geek on August 3, 2009 10:06 AM said...

biar je.. show ur a better person.. but now acting out.. :P
miss ya dude..
btw, thnx for being there..

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